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海外情報

旅って本当に楽しいですよね。

 

ツアーを利用したり、

友達と旅行することは楽しいことと思いますが、

一人旅はそれらとまた違った楽しさがあります。

 

私は今まで30カ国以上も旅をして来ました。

そのほとんどは女一人で旅してます。

 

一人旅だと自分の思いのまま旅することができて

自由を満喫することができます

 

実際一人旅に出たい!と思っている人もいるでしょうが、

危険であると思い躊躇してしまう人も多いと思います。

当然女一人旅だともちろん100%安全ではありません

 

そして私が旅したその全てが安全だったわけではありません

ただ実は自分の行動次第で危険は回避できるので今回はその方法を紹介します。

旅のすすめ〜日常に飽きたら旅に出よう!〜

 

路地裏には行くな

女性の旅人で路地裏ハンターっていう人がいるようですが、それはマジで危ないと思います。

 

特に南米。

 

むしろ強盗が果敢に路地裏へ誘導してくるぐらいなので、自ら路地裏に飛び込むようなことは絶対にしてはいけません。

 

グーグルマップで誘導されても、少しでも寂しいと危険を感じるようであれば、絶対に行ってはいけません。

 

迂回しましょう。

 

暗い歩道でなく明るい車道を歩こう

どうしても暗い道を歩かなくてはいけない時があります。

 

しかしそんな時は明るい車道を歩きましょう

 

車はヘッドライトがあるにも関わらず、なぜか歩道になく車道にしか電灯がない道が多いものです。

 

車道の真ん中はさすがに危ないですが、端なら車も避けてくれます。

 

 

夜は行動するな

夜行動してはいけないことは旅人の基本ですが、夜行動している人を結構見かけます。

 

意外と危険といわれている場所でも、行ってみたらそうでもなかったということも多く、また同じ宿の宿泊客も夜に外出していることから、大丈夫かな?と思ってしまうこともあるでしょう。

 

みんながやっているからといって安全なわけではありません。

 

野宿しない

当たり前のことかもしれませんが、

ネット上で女の人でも野宿している人を時々見かけます。

現にイタリアのヴェニスの駅前で、女性だけでなく複数の人たちが野宿しているところを見かけました。

 

当然ではありますが、女性の場合は強姦や強盗の標的にされやすいので、

極力避けましょう。

 

*ただ上級者になると、女性でも野宿している様ですね。

知らない人についていかない

これも当たり前といえば当たり前なのですが、

海外に女一人でいると日本とは違い、人に話しかけられる頻度が多くなります

 

老若男女。大抵は興味本位で話しかけてくるのですが、

中には、強姦や強盗目的で話しかけてくる輩(やから)もいるかもしれません。

 

見抜けるのであれば問題ないのですが、普通は区別がつかないと思うので、

仮にあなたが道に迷ってしまって、親切に案内してくれそうな人でも、

寂しい道に案内されたり、少しでも危険を察知したら

逃げる準備をしておきましょう。

 

知らない人についていかない

 

自意識過剰になる

自分としては、女性が一人で旅する上で自意識過剰になることは、

割と大事だと考えています。

 

自意識過剰になるというのが、どういうことかと言いますと、

男の人と話している時に

少しでも自分の体を触って来る、あるいは触られそうに

なったらあからさまに嫌な顔をするのです。

間違っても、笑顔で対応してはダメです。

 

あるいははっきり嫌だとその人に伝え、必要であれば必要以上に騒ぐ。

これ結構、日本の女性は苦手だと思いますが、

自分を守れるのは自分しかいないのでやるしかないです。

 

女性側が注意すると、体を触ろうとしてきた人が、

そんなつもりじゃなかったんだよ〜”と言ってくるかもしれませんが、

先手必勝、触られる前に触らせないということ

が最も大事だと思います。

 

当たり前のことをいっているようですが、結構いざとなったらできませんので、

せめてイメージトレーニングをしておいた方が、いいかもしれません。

 

#私も注意してはいるのですが、気づいたら、触られていることがあります。

女性が危険な国ランキング1位のインドは危険ではない〜エジプトが危ない〜

 

 

背後に注意

少しさみしい道を歩いている時は、できるだけ背後に人を歩かせないようにしましょう。

 

具体的なやり方は、まず背後に人気(ひとけ)を感じたら、必ず振り返るようにしましょう。

 

このときできるだけ、後ろの人の顔を見ましょう。

 

一見するとやり過ぎですが、このやり方で私は危険といわれる中南米を縦断してきました。

 

 

 

 

少しでも疑問点があれば聞く

これは気のせいかもしれませんが、女一人だと

お店の人が強く出やすい気がします。

 

気恥ずかしいかもしれませんが、

屋台などのお店でお釣りが足りない・価格が他の人よりも高い場合、

少しでも気になったら、即刻指摘するべきです。

 

一旦ぼったくり行為を見逃してしまうと、

そのお店の人はまた別の外国人にボッタク行為を繰り返します

 

ましてやあなたが日本人であることが分かってしまっていたら、

日本人ってチョロいんだな、と思われてしまいます。

 

気になってもあなたが言わなかったことで

次に店に来た人がまた同じようにぼったくられてしまうのです。

 

肌の露出を控える

意外と暑い場所でも女性の肌の露出を禁止している

観光地は多いものです。

観光地っていっても寺院が多いです。

 

例えばカンボジアのシェムリアップにあるアンコールワットをはじめ、

イスラム圏のモスクも女性の露出は禁じられています

 

そもそも露出が多いと、入れる場所が減ったり現地で

T-シャツを買わざる得なくなります。

 

欧米のバックパッカーは、肌の露出をしている人が多いですが、

危険であるとともに、そもそも女性の肌の露出が許されていない国が多いのです。

 

ドミトリーに泊まる

これは意外かもしれませんが、個室は危ないと思っています。

なぜなら個室は一回強盗・強姦に入られたら逃げられないからです。

 

特に安宿の鍵なんて、信用できたものではございません。

宿のスタッフもこちらから見ると氏素性(うじすじょう)が

わからない相手です。

なので安宿の個室は泊まるべきではありません

 

ドミトリーですと、ゲスト同士の相部屋になります。

また大抵の宿はゲストの身分証のコピーをとります。

なので仮にゲストが犯罪を犯したことが発覚した場合、

すぐに誰がやったかを特定されてしまうのです。

 

逆に宿のスタッフの身分証を見ることやコピーすることは

できないことではないですが、スタッフ全員となると

難しいのが現状だと思います。

 

盗難対策に関して、下記記事でまとめています。

海外旅行時、実際に私が遭遇した盗難事件

 

食べ物を受け取らない

見ず知らずの人から食べ物を受け取ってはいけません。

 

よくあるのが、電車などの近くに座っている人から

お菓子を貰うパターン。

 

ほとんどの場合は安全だとは思うのですが、

睡眠薬や毒が入っていないとは限りません

 

食べ物を貰う際は、完全密封されているものなど選んで受け取る様にしましょう。

 

お酒は飲まない

宿でお酒を飲む分には問題ないのですが、

誰かに誘われたりしてお酒を飲むのは危ないでしょう

 

ましてや現地で知り合って男性と二人きりで飲むのは

危ないので絶対にやめましょう。

 

誘われても飲みに行く相手は女性だけにしましょう。

また夜飲みに行くのは絶対に辞めましょう

 

現地に合わせた服装をする

日本のファッションは世界的に見て割と独特なので、海外でも同様の格好をしていると結構目立ちます。

 

旅行でおしゃれしたい気持ちも分かりますが、強盗の標的にされることを考えると、やはりおしゃれは控えた方がいいでしょう。

 

仮におしゃれをするなら、現地の女の子がやっているような服装がいいでしょう。

 

イスラム圏ではヒシャブをつければ、セクハラ被害も減らせるでしょう。

 

現地に合わせた服装を

 

 

二人旅の方が危険かも?

女性一人で旅していると危ないと思われがちですが、今まで50カ国以上旅をしてきて、セクハラやスリは経験しましたが、本当の意味で危ない経験をしたことがありません

 

女性が危険な国ランキング1位のインドは危険ではない〜エジプトが危ない〜

海外旅行時、実際に私が遭遇した盗難事件

 

もちろん、前述したことを守ってきたというのもあるのですが、二人で旅をしていても強盗の被害に合っている人は多くいます。

 

二人でいると、一人でいる時よりも歩く速度が遅くなり、二人でしゃべる言語が現地語ではない外国語で話している場合、結構目立ちます。

 

また一人でいる時よりもスキができ、二人でいるからという緊張感も薄れます。

 

このことから、女性一人だから危険で男性二人だから安心、ということはないような気がします。

 

一人だから特別危険ということはない

 

一人でさみしくないのかという愚問に関して

よく一人で旅していると、不審に見られることも多いです。

 

しかし私は日本にいた時の方が孤独に感じたような気がします。

生きづらい、苦しい、自己嫌悪?どうしたらいいのか?〜1回休みましょう〜

 

少しでも人と違う行動をしているとすぐに変人扱い。

 

海外では日本より人種も多様ですし、日本にいたら変な人も多いです。

 

もちろん旅をしていると孤独に思うことはありますが、そういう時は同じホステルの人やスタッフ、お店の人などにグーグル翻訳などを使って話しかけたりします。

 

ドミトリーで出会いはあるのか?

 

まとめ

日本で外国人が一人でいても、話しかける人は少ないと思いますが、

逆に外国に行くとかなりの頻度で話しかけられて驚くに違いありません。

 

そのほとんどの人は心の優しい人です。

 

しかしその中で痴漢行為をしたり強盗目的の人が

いることを絶対に忘れてはいけません。

 

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